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Every
guy knows a club or a party is a great place to find a new partner, or to cement
your place in history as a desirable but unavailable hunk.
Yet there's a lot more to looking good than simply donning leather or rubber. If you
don't want your self to be remembered for dandruff, dirty finger-nails and spots the size
of moon-craters, bad breath or your clothes fitting like a bag of potatoes you need to
take a few simple steps to make sure that every part of you is presented in the best
possible condition, at a crude level you are promoting yourself in the best possible
light. Now this all sounds
superficial, and 'real men' do not look after themselves or use cosmetics. The reality is
that the gay scene can be very bitchy, and in many places, the more insecure are prone to
bitch at anyone that 'threatens' their security, so why give them anything to criticize.
Likewise the gay scene (much like the muscle scene) is often looking for perfection
and you are of course old, dead and buried after 30. There are advantages to age, as
as for looks youth becomes sophistication - awesome Masters do not happen overnight and
there is perhaps a reason that almost every one under 30 is not a Master.
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Fat
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Unless you are into guys that
are fat (whatever name you use), moving towards a 'good' body helps tip the cards in your
favour. You might be happy being fat, you can either come to terms with it (and call
yourself a bear) or you can do something about it. Dieting is not always the best choice
as usually it ends up making your fatter!
The advice these days is to 'eat sensibility', and really just change your life style, not
go into famine for a while then put it all back on and a little bit more. Seems that your
body has adjusted your metabolism to the famine condition so eating normally puts back on
the weight. The only real way to win is to increase your metabolism with a new life style
that includes a gym.It helps having a motivator to
make the change, get a training partner so you can motivate each other. With my slaves I
like to check up their progress and if they have not met the required target - out
comes the riding crop.
However to win you need to change the mind set and you need to make a commitment with
yourself, and just like giving up smoking, devise strategies for success - assuming that
you really want to do it.
For advice about losing weight, contact your local Weight Watchers or read
'No More Mr. Fat
Guy' by Jonathon Savill and Richard Smedley.
You could make a firm REALISTIC commitment and become Fit For Life. Taking up that challenge can transform
you, luckily results can be quick which is always good for the motivation.
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Fitness
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getting
fighting fit Fitness is
more about Oxygen uptake and how your heart reacts.
David Jones of Central Training Centre in London recommends couch
potatoes follow a progressive fitness programme that starts with brisk walking for 30
minutes, three days a week. Gradually increase your level of exercise until you're
completing 2-3 vigorous 20-30 minute aerobic workouts each week (e.g. running, fast
cycling). Your fitness should improve dramatically within three months, so the sooner you
start, the better.
For online personal training, contact the Oxygen Club.
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Hair
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Bad
Hair day ? For
fresh-looking hair, wash your hair every day and condition it at least once a week. If you
suffer from dandruff, try a special anti-dandruff shampoo like Nizoral or T-GEL for four
weeks.
Considering a change of hairstyle?
It may take 2-3 cuts to get there, so check out your stylist at least three months
until you find one that you are happy with.
If you're thinning on top, you can buy a drug called minoxidil (often sold as Regaine)
which, when rubbed into the scalp every day, could
reduce your rate of hair loss after 4-6 weeks, or do what many other guys do get a sexy
Crop Cut. As a control freak, I tend feel that it is the responsibility of the
Master to crop the slaves hair, and to Totally control the appearance of a slave, upto
that point the slave is out to market himself is the best light to attract a Master to
himself.
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Skin
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Sort
out that skin One of the
most common causes of tired, unhealthy, grey-looking skin is dehydration, both on the
surface and within your body, says nutritional consultant Jane Clarke, author of Body
Foods for Life.
She advises drinking at least four pints of water a day.
Using a moisturizer can also make your skin look less dry and wrinkled. Men now spend some
560 million pounds a year on toiletries so you don't need to feel embarrassed about buying
one.
The first step to great skin, shave and wellbeing. A facial will work wonders with your
blackheads and leave you feeling relaxed and grime-free. Use a daily facial cleanser
(such as K-XS) that has
ingredients for a deep pore cleansing action.
You might look red-faced for a few hours afterwards so don't do it when you are just about
to go out.
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Shaves
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Enjoy a
close shave
Make sure your beard area is as wet as possible with warm water, maybe after a good
soak in the bath, advises
David Waters, the style and grooming editor at Men's Health magazine and author of Grooming
Essentials For Men.
Use a gel-type lube ( such as sold by King of
Shaves, try their free samples) and shave in the direction of the hair growth and, of
course, a fresh blade (Mach3 Razor by Gillette for example) for the best cut. It is always
easy to leave it till the blade drags at the hair, then then that is too late.
The more lather in a product the more it will dry out your skin. It may feel good to have
a lot of lather on your face, but the fact is that this lather is created by surfactants
(similar to detergents) in the products which dry out your skin. As you are already
scraping off natural oils when you shave you do not then want to further dry out the skin
with a strong lather product. The direct opposite to this approach is to get the hair
soaked, then use a shaving oil and the blade aquaplanes over the face for a very close
cut.
Shaving around the ass hole is another thing indeed,
so use the best method for each area. There are many myths between blade and electric shaving;
for those who habitually blade shave, the hair grown out at an angle, those who habitually
electric shave, the hair grows out straight, so swapping from one to the other will at
first always be 'not so good' as your old method until your hair is retrained.
That said, wet shaves closer ?
A Blade that is is direct contact with your skin, even more a multi-blade that pulls on
the hair before it is cut, or one that is behind a steel guard?
Other factors often apply, how many seconds do you have in the morning to shave,one that
will do might be just good enough with today's life styles.
After you have blade shaved you should always use a moisturizer, these can vary in price,
from a simple one such as Curel through to the vastly over price. If you care
for your skin your youthful looks last longer.
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Zits and Spots
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zap your zits
Most spots are best left alone to heal naturally; if you squeeze them, you run the risk of
an infection making matters worse if you don't empty them cleanly in one go without
traumatizing the spot which can leave you with a 'spot for life'. If one erupts at the
wrong time, use a concealer. Pop into a big drugs store and browse for one that matches
your skin colour.
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Clawed you way out of
bed this morning ? Keep
nails looking good by cutting them short (no, don't use your teeth!) and smoothing the tip
with a file. A manicure a day or two before and big day will leave your nails
cleaner than you've ever seen them. Likewise you should not have long nails if you are
into fisting as you do not want to risk ripping through the colon inside (same thickness
as a condom/Durex or sausage skin - not as strong). Having some nails is good if you are
into tit-torture as they allow fine detailed play on the subjects tits, that are just not
possible with out some nails. You may wish to have a fisting hand and a tit hand, or
ensure that fisting gloves you use are effective protection.
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Sleep
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Deep
and Relaxed Don't undo all
your good work by overdoing it the night before, If you really want to look your best,
have a glass of warm milk and an early night.
It really is true about burning the candle at both ends, and getting enough sleep (~8hrs),
too much can make you tired as can a lack of fitness.
Reducing the level of stress out of your
life is also a wise move, wherever possible go for the quality of life. Much stress can be
down to internal dialogs going on in your head, pent up what you really want to say (to
your boss, to the neighbour that keeps you awake all night). You need to be free of that
baggage or able to live with it - eitherway deal with it.
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Body Odor
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Body
Odor Personally I love the
smell of a man, I love the fresh scent he has as I bury my face into his pits, pure man,
just oozing masculinity.
This contrasts that the cutting acidic smell when it has gone stale, for some that is a
big turn on, but less of the population fines that socially acceptable, it is possible
that Mr. Right also does not - Unless you want to 'screen out' just that do not share your
tastes.
My slaves find that showering everyday and not using deodorants but just being clean
produces best results (your body compensates with everything you use against it it seems).
Other odors, are the over use of body scents. You will not get into many leather
bars/clubs smelling like a woman, if you are going to use something, sublty is by far the
best, use less than you think.
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