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Involuntarily induced ejaculation (or enforced milking) is the other side of the Cum Control coin, and something I enjoy every bit as much!

This is the direct opposite of cum denial. Whereas with cum denial the purpose is to make a victim want to cum but prevent him from doing so, with enforced milking, the idea is to make him cum against his will.

The question people usually ask is: why on earth would anyone want not to cum? Well, normally they wouldn't, and so it is something that has to be set up - the victim has to be given some powerful motivation to hold out and not allow himself to cum. An imaginitive top should be able to come up with an endless variety of reasons to make his victim want to control himself and not cum, if he tries. These reasons will usually take the form of the threat of (further) punishment, or simply a direct order by the top that under no circumstances is the victim to allow himself to cum (this works well with established Master/slave relationships). I often threaten my victim with more tickle-torture (which is many times more difficult to deal with immediately after orgasm, by the way) - but different tops may prefer different motivations. Whatever, the point is to place the victim in an impossible position - to make him determined not to allow himself to cum - and then, quite simply, to milk him in whatever way he can resist the least. It can be done either quickly and efficiently, in which case the humiliation will come from the speed and ease with which the victim can be made to lose control (and thereby disobey the direct order and/or incur punishment) - or it can be done slowly, so that the victim has lots of time to feel the approaching orgasm and fight against it before being gently but irresistably pushed over the edge.

I find the resulting desperate attempts - and ultimate failure - of the victim to control himself, extremely satisfying. For the victim, the humiliation, the feeling of being ultimately controlled, the no-win situation and the intensity of his orgasm all combine to create an incredibly horny experience.

One of my all-time favourite scenes takes the form of a contest between me and the boy.

The rules are very simple:

• I have one single objective: to make him cum. I can use whatever means are necessary to accomplish that.
• He has one single objective: to hold out against me and not allow me to make him cum under any circumstances or get punished.
• He is free to struggle and fight physically and mentally as much as he wishes. However, before the contest actually begins, he must allow me to lock a blindfolding hood onto him. (This prevents a straightforward fist fight and makes him easier to handle until I get him restrained.)

Of course I could make him cum in the first two minutes if I wanted to - but the longer he's teased, played with, and lulled into a false sense of security, the more intense will be his humiliation when I eventually (and inevitably) win. I've had big, muscular lads fighting against the straps, trying to hold on to their rapidly-diminishing self-control; I've milked bikers; I've jacked punks; I've made hogtied skinheads cum in their jeans - and I love every minute of it. My favourite victims for this are cocky, arrogant boys who know that I couldn't make them cum if they didn't want to.
The satsfaction as they squirt their spunk out helplessly into my gently jacking hands is exquisite.