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Non-Europeans
What is consent
Mutual consent |
- Age of Consent
- The age when you can make decisions for yourself
where by if you do not want to do something, you say NO!
This is the age that you can accept responsibility to explore your sexual identity and
discover what your 'dick' likes, this also implies the ability to take responsibility for
your actions.
In some countries they like to declare one age of consent for prosecution (e.g. execution
in the Gas Chamber) and one age for sexual freedom and voting.
- Europeans:
- In most European countries the age of consent is
now equal for both gay and heterosexuals. This age maybe anywhere between 12 and 18.
If you are old enough to use a computer, you are probably old enough to view this site,
just be a bit discrete if under the age of 18.
Parents are generally protective of their Children and fear that their are dangers on the
net - education is the best defence against such dangers. This takes the opposite
view hiding from uncomfortable issues and banning everything.
- Non-Europeans
I may not know the Age of Consent in your state or country.
However taking the guide line that you can die for your country or Vote - this implies
that at that age you are considered legally responsible for you actions. If you are
in a free country, then if they can take legal action against you then you are old enough
to look.
- What is Consent
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If you are in a State/Country which has some wacky
law based on religion, then I would ask you would limit the sexual details to
personal conversations. It might also be in your best interest not to be to active on this
site, assuming you do not get the Error 403 : Profanity Error. Alternatively you might just be blocked by
a Proxy server.
This would be typical if you were connecting from Work or School. Where the net connection
is not for personal use, but as defined by the service owner having an alternative agenda
to yourself; bandwidth/capacity usage, your moral welfare, censorship paranoia etc.- Mutual
Consent
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- The consent of both parties is of vital importance in any
sexual encounter, but the issue seems more pronounced in SM because many of the activities
are those that are widely seen as unpleasant and undesirable in everyday life. Many SMers
have therefore devised particularly techniques for managing consent.
Also see http://www.queernet.org/deviant/ssethics.htm#Consent
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Pandering
Offensive
Obscenity
Homophobia
Police are planning
to hack into personal eMail and Internet details after brokering a deal with service
providers.
This allows them to gain access to Britain's 8 Million computer users. Tapping into
eMail does not need permission from a judge or the Home Office as would telephone tapping
or postal interception.
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- Cover Note:
- This site does not endorse prostitution, pandering,
paedophilia, the abuse of animals or humans, non consenting behaviour.
Any such material is barred and would be removed once found.
- Pandering:
- "Gratification or indulgence of coarse desires" - this seems to be one of those US
things. This seems a bit to vague, or to mean anything you want it to mean, one of those
useful repressive laws.
Not like one is playing with 'loose' morals, nor preying on the vulnerable.
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- Offensive:
- If you find this subject matter objectionable, are fucked up
about sex freedom and diversity, then you should leave this domain at once, as it does not
get any 'better',
you have been warned!
If you continue to stay here and still proclaim that you are offended, it is taken to mean
that you have repressed sexual interests that this site satisfies.
"Me thinks he protests too much..."
Which means to say that if you were not sexually
fucked up (and no one knew) you would be doing all that you see here.
Consider how offensive Heterosexual sex is to a Gay person, we don't go around trying to
ban it !
The thought of putting a penis into a vagina- err yuck....
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- Obscenity and
Pornography
- This can be anything what you want it to be.
Where the motto "Don't like it - Don't Buy it" is ignored.
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- If you are turned on by cars (or unnaturally fast bikes :) ,
the "Lotus Car" brochure could be porn.
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- Porn is whatever the authorities say it, your parents or your
Government.
- Porn is scary, if you are scared of sex; sexual prowess,
sexual failure.
It is not good enough to abstain from it yourself, to cover-up your own inadequacies, you
have to make every one the same as yourself - only then do you feel secure, and even then
there is that itch inside "what are they doing in private", so than you get
scared about their thoughts, want to ban encryption, because of the "red under the
bed" fear that they might not be 'one of us'.
All pretty sad really.
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- Homophobia
- The fear that you might be gay yourself ?
A form of xenophobia where you are scared or have an irrational or discomfort with those
that are different from yourself.
After they have gone through all the excuses, its against the law, God (or anybody else)
says its wrong or unnatural, the problem is not with the gay person, its the homophobe.
Homophobes generally do not 'Cherish Diversity', only those with internal security and
flexibility are able to.
Normal people "don't give a fuck" one way or the other about gays etc, they now
what they like, and what we do is of no consequence to them - when that is not the case,
that is when they have a problem.
Legal rights and Equality does not get rid of these phobias, education, mutual respect,
integration and tolerance.
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Organisation is a Special Interest Group focused on all aspects on all things
related to the SM role play known as "Dog Training" which is related in its web
pages.
It is more about furthering, that than pure sexual gratification. This is why I am reluctant to have general/non-discript sexual links
or images.
There are many aspects of SM that are not relevant to Dog Training, so they would not be
found here.
I have no desire to 'dilute' the site with (horny though it may be) general non-focused SM
images. For as much fun as being bound up in a leather Sleep Sack is, (and they are great)
it is not very doggy, so you would not find it in the dog pages! |
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find the above constraint objectionable or an affront to your human or civil rights,
remember this next time you |
SM |
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SadoMaschoism
or more accurately Sexual Magic is a much misunderstood topic
and suffers from having a bad press.
Plenty of people you don't know what the fuck they are talking about come out with
"I'll give you SM, I'll knock you down and give you a fucking Kicking".
At its core there is power play, and a sense of care for the other person. The SM
practionier has a vast abundance of skills that are just not available to the non-SM
practitioner. An SM Master learns a wide breadth of sexual skills that totally blessed out
the slave - you just don't get that by fucking your partner in ten minuets (being generous
here). By way of contrast my personal longest SM scene was 27hours of bliss.In all honestly a Master will endeavour to learn and use every
possible means to give pleasure to a slave.
So what of Whips and Pain ?
Many slaves have never been whipped or flogged, but many
have had (and welcome ) the firmness of a Master's slap on the butt. The application
of pain is a stimulus, a technique to simulate the release of Endorphins (if you are a
marathon run you my be familiar with this high). Again unlike the tortures in some police
forces in the world, this is done with Full Consent, and is part of a dialogue between
Master and slave.
Pain can be from a simple love bite or clothes peg on a
nipple to being whipped to blood. The chemistry in the body is the same. When done by
someone who knows what they are doing during preparation through to post-care this is all
quite safe.
The problem is EDUCATION or
rather the lack of it. The best thing you could do to learn more is to become a member of
a leather or SM community and talk to those with experience. Be careful of bullshit
(keeping up appearances) some people look the part, but don't know there stuff, the
quiet ones are often worth a look :)
In the UK there is SMGays, in the US there are various
Academies (academy) and is Europe pretty much the same.
Don't be shy to talk.
SM is not for everyone, many people have hang-ups that will
not allow them to be adventurous (parental assault/violence, religious doctrine/dogma
etc).
It is a matter of consent, however pleasure skills are never wasted. |
Pain/Torture |
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- Society says:
- It is only ok to beat and hurt someone if it is without their consent and if they
don't want it.
- It is only ok to execute someone but mercy-killing a cancer
patient is wrong.
The principle it there to gives them the best life possible until the last moment - but
only the rich get that.
- This is where the state take the choice of what affects you
out of your hand.
Pain is, in broad terms, the body's warning that something
is wrong, but our pain
responses are very complex and it is very easy to produce the effect of pain without
doing any real harm; the pain threshold, at which a stimulus crosses the boundary
between intense sensation and pain, is also a grey area in terms of our perception, and
can vary according to context.
Torture: Intense consenting stimulation under the control of
the Master, relief at his discretion.
Consider two cases of orgasm:
- Not stimulated: Subject wanks
till he comes. Just a method of emptying the balls. Wanks every day or 5 times a day -
soon the cums are meaningless, merely holding false hope of feeling better after it.
- Stimulated: Subject is in
effective bondage. Is continually stimulated till all he thinks about is coming, this fore
play lasts for hours, he loves what is happening to him, and if he was free he would have
come hours ago, but he isn't. His balls are almost bursting now, he is begging to
cum, will do anything to cum. When he is finally allowed to cum, he plasters the ceiling
with the content of his balls.
And for a woman, hours of multiple orgasms - something men can only dream of.
Also see http://www.queernet.org/deviant/bodyn-q.htm#Pain |
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Personal
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Curious.
I believe you punish me when I do not think the way you do, when I am not becoming more
like you.
You claim you respect my
individuality and yet your are frightened by it.
Seven of 9.
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Wacky Laws: You may be in a Christian
State that will gladly execute a minor in the Electric Chair, (with no attention from
the Humane Society ) than allow him to have consenting sexual relations, and their may
even be doubts as to if he can vote. In some places there appears to be an age where you
get fucked by the system, and cannot do anything about it, not even Vote.
Christians and religion:
Sadly all that being a Christian means that it you can use it to support all your
inadequacies, hang-ups, bigotry and all that is negative. Seems to be me that if you do
not have a God that you take personal responsibility, you ask yourself --
"Why is it that I have a problem with Gays,
SM (or whatever) that is different to my belief of how life should be".
On recognising that God is in all living things, so that '"..love each other as
thought he were me" makes sense.
Generally follows the "Do as you would be done by" life style, often containing
'Centred' people. Accepts that Gods love is unconditional. Not untypical of the
Metropolitan and Spiritualist's Churches or Seikism.
Then there are the others, who declare that you will not go to 'Heaven' unless you join
'Their' Church (political party). As a group they generally insecure and paranoid (if you
are not for us then you must be against us), make a big
point about "the devils work" (bit like "Reds under the bed" in times
past). These people also see no Moral dilemma about life being sacred and letting the
State take 20 minuets to choke a human on Cyanide gas in the death chamber, do it to a dog
and they will lock you up! They are selective about the 'Holy Book' and are keen to apply
it to others in society (they are often personally excused) and may from the out side seem
sexually "fucked-up". Such people would only visit this site, to be shocked, to
see the work of the devil, and so these people have been warned!
It saddens me that sex is such a taboo, that one can endorse the sickest of societies,
complaining about Religious persecution and freedom, and yet be so keen to deny freedom to
others. Freedom on our terms. You can only be like US, Clones - There is but one God, but
one thought, but one law, what I say is right and so war begins... |
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